It doesn't really matter in the end..
The only thing that matters is being a winner.. Losers are never treated well by the ppl around and why the hell shud they be neways.. They had an opportunity to prove themselves, but they couldn't.Winners always attract others towards themselves. They are always the source of respect by the society. Rather, I would say that winners grab the power to rule and command over other ppl. A mediocre person may be equally good, may be equally hard working but he wudn't really ever be the center of attraction.
But, DO NOT ever get satisfied by nething less than the absolute win. I read this somewhere that ppl generally get settled and satisfied by relative wins, relative happiness, relative gains and relative victories. Set your standards before you start playing. Achieve those standards and consider yourself the winner. And if those standards are not achieved, do not feel contented. Because that wasn't what YOU expected out of yourself.
Because in the end, it wudn't matter if you are a winner - be it relative or absolute. You need to be an absolute winner in your own way. Being victorious in such absolute sense is pleasant in its own way.
posted by AK-84 @ 2:12 AM
2 Comments:
hmm.. yet another Theory of Success - do I say?
I would not agree with the point of being a winner is "all that matters".
Win/Loss aKa Success/Failure - These are parts of a game. Our concentration must always be on playing to the best extent possible always - which is difficult but not impossible. Win/Loss shall take care of themselves. It feels good if one is clearly aware what game is one playing. Most of the time it is not very clear which game one wants to/is play/playing.
Yes, losing is definitely one half part of the game.. But, losing doesn't bring one that fame what winning does. In the end, losers are never thot of by the society.
Infact!! what u said is the other side of the story.. I wanted to express the point that winning will get u respect and love from others; BUT do not feel contented untill u achieve the standards that u set 4 urself..
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