Sunday, March 06, 2005

Luv at first sight or infatuation

Is there something called 'love at first sight'?? I'll put forward two arguments. Lets see, which one wins.

Sometimes, when we see a person of opposite sex for the first time (ok!! for some it might be the same gender :D), we tend to get attracted. What exactly does catch our eyes or as di sed once - "wat exactly makes us turn our face"? Its definitely the beauty. Now, it depends. It depends on the definition of beauty. For some, beauty may be something to deal with the simplicity. For others, it might be the coolness. For some others, it might be the degree of sexiness. Its all local i.e. depends from person to person. Be it anything, its all to do with beauty.

Now, is getting attracted with others' beauty, infatuation? Ok!! I ask it as - Is it always infatuation? No, its not. Wnw dictionary says this abt infatuate - "to inspire with foolish or shallow love or affection" .. Are those looks always deceiving? No they are not. If they really arent deceiving, its not infatuation.

"Love at first sight" may be defined something like - getting your exact taste in the other person. Taste - Ok!! it might be defined something like - preferences. Fine, fine.. enuff of definitions..

So, love at first sight does exist. Now, it may be found out as infatuation later. Or we might even get to understand the other person correctly at the very first moment itself. Afterall, actions depict our nature and we might be gud at judging actions. Now those actions (action of wearing some kind of clothers, physical actions) are what attract us in the very first moment. So, it all depends on the intelligence of the person. It might come out as infatuation later or you might just continue with the degree of love within.

Whatever may be the arguments.. Critics will never stop. All I want to say is that this - "love at first sight" is something really sweet. ppl who experience this are really lucky. infact, ppl who experience this from both the sides (or genders) are the luckiest. ok!! i rename myself as lucky :D Dont try to run away. Dont let yourself believe the fact that its infatuation. That way, you wont be able to call urself as lucky* (regular expressions :D) ...

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