Thursday, January 20, 2005

How can anger eat up your mind?

Why do we say pinching things in anger and feel the mistake only when its too late? Think twice before you speak. But this thinking power vanishes once u're angry. I mean its bad.. Why feel angry abt things?

Its not just once or twice. You feel the mistake, assure yourself of not repeating it and repeat it wen angry. aah.. wen will we stop repeating the mistakes? Wen will we start to learn from them? Wen will we change? Why doesnt the human attitude change?

You keep grudges for someone and the grudges come out in sentences that shouldnt be said. Well, its true that in anger with someone, we try to hurt the other person with watever we can. Sometimes its weapons, but more dangerous are these words. More dangerous are the comments that we make. Outer injury can be healed. But one sentence might ruin someone's life. One sentence might make someone's life miserable. Depression is just one such case. Words can be used to make someone's life too. Why not use it that way? Now, you have to be decide it for yourself. Make someone's life or ruin it. desi bhasha says - punya kamaa le ya paapi ban jaa.. Who knows where we land up? Who knows that we might be in similar hurting situation sometime? Who knows wen we need someone? Why ruin lives and relationships? Understand these things.. Make someone's life today. Motivate ppl for their good. be more caring. You'll get it back some day. Who knows wen u need it? Keep an impression behind, wherever u go. Make ppl feel good for this life..

I won't be able to forget the fact that I made similar mistakes of using cheap n low comments for Siddharth Dhawan in 7th standard and for Vishwas Rao on 19th Jan'05. Bad bad bad.. We find mistakes in ppl. Why dont we look at ourselves? What are we at this point of time? Mere dependents.. Dependents for everything in life.. Dependents on parents (financially n mentally) ; Dependents on frnds around (motivationally) ; Dependents on the ppl in contact (you need to get ur jobs n tasks done) ; Dependents on some special ppl (Love) ; Dependents on ppl to criticize you wen u make mistake ; Dependents on ppl to gain experiences in life ; Dependents on ppl to make you strong within.. We dont have a standing of our own and we talk abt commenting ppl.. Why dont we change our thoughts? Change urself today. You'll do good to some. May be that is the staircase to heaven.
All the best
GOD bless.

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