Yes, it does change
The way we write our posts does change with time and the main affecting factor is -
more and more people reading those posts This is what I've been realizing since the very beginning - If you write a post for others, it'll get boring. If you write it for yourself, it'll be interesting to read it. It'll be interesting as its different from what we've probably been reading, writing. It'll be interesting as we get to know things abt ppl. It'll be interesting as it comes from within. It'll be interesting being real and original.
If we dont put in our actual feelings, thoughts and reactions in the posts thinking that others might read it and feel offensive about those things, we're probably making the biggest mistake. Our thoughts, arent they? Our blog, isnt it? Our feelings, arent they? No one can stop us from doing what we wish.
Infact, from 'the real and original writings', we might be able to realize some of our mistakes. We might get back some useful feedbacks. If we're really wasting some time writing these posts, we should be benefitted atleast some way or the other. And this someway is probably the feedback way. So, change now. Write more real and more original. Stop cooking up stories. We can find many of those on the net. We dont need to study someone's blog for that.
Should we make a decision ??
In any moment of decision
the best thing you can do is the right thing,
the next best thing is the wrong thing,
and the worst thing you can do is nothing.
[Courtesy: Sunny's blog]
Not to decide is to decide not to decide
[Courtesy: jaya's comment]
GOD's sense of humour :D
A man was praying to God.
He said, "God!?"
God responded, "Yes?"
And the guy said, "Can I ask a question?"
"Go ahead, "God said.
"God, what is a million years to you?"
God said, "a million years to me is only a second"
"Hmmm, "the man wondered.
Then he asked, "God, what is a million dollars worth
to you?"
God said, "a million dollars to me is as a penny."
So the man said, "God can I have a penny?"
And God cheerfully said, "Sure!!.... just a second."
Why do we blog?
I just happened to talk to one of my favorite persons. We were talking abt blogging being the favorite timepass of many students in this institute these days. And then discussion went onto the reason behind this being the favorite time pass. I just realized - Is it that difficult to hear the truth? That person flatly said that its just to get others' comments. Is it? If I try to recall all the blogs that I know, I find that many of them are srsly after those comments. Ppl keep the urls in their status messages, tell others abt the new posts they've made, comment on others' posts just to get back some for their blogs too. Infact, some of them are so desperate to get a comment that they force us to make one.
Arent the above reasons supposed to be sick? Guess not. What if that person wants others to correct him/her? What if thats just to get back some feedbacks? What if thats just to convey some important message indirectly? What if thats for making ppl aware of our creativity? Arent we all in search of some praise? Arent we all in need of being famous? And guess, it isnt bad to think abt one's own happiness. If others reading ur posts gives u happiness, why not get that?
Ppl say that keeping the url as status mssg is sick? Then there are some others who use other indirect methods to tell ppl abt their blog. May be cause they find status mssgs to be to direct. And if u really arent in search of comments, maintain an offline personal diary.
Guess, the meaning of maintaining a blog is really confused. Some maintain it as a personal diary that includes their day to day feelings, some maintain it for improving their writing skills, some others jes use that for taking out their frustrations, few are into improving their talents, some others make it because some others are making it. Everyone has a selfish reason behind it.
Today, I maintain this blog thinking that someday, someone might just get impressed by the way I think and the way I write. Not that it'll benefit me someway. But, atleast I'll be into talks for sometime. Everyone's got some or the other intentions. But all it boils down to the fact is that they want ppl to talk abt them, read what they right. Why is everyone after being the center of attraction? Are the really wrong at their end? May be not as life is nothing but the way of presenting oneself. This is one way of doing it. Ppl get to know u better.
What am I writing in here? All m doing is wasting my time. But this time waste is useful reason being ppl will know abt the reason behind my time waste and will waste theirs in turn. But this way, they know me and can deal with me in a much better way. The purpose behind this is totally confused. As rightly sed - "Generalizations are the most difficult things"
Luv at first sight or infatuation
Is there something called 'love at first sight'?? I'll put forward two arguments. Lets see, which one wins.
Sometimes, when we see a person of opposite sex for the first time (ok!! for some it might be the same gender :D), we tend to get attracted. What exactly does catch our eyes or as di sed once - "wat exactly makes us turn our face"? Its definitely the beauty. Now, it depends. It depends on the definition of beauty. For some, beauty may be something to deal with the simplicity. For others, it might be the coolness. For some others, it might be the degree of sexiness. Its all local i.e. depends from person to person. Be it anything, its all to do with beauty.
Now, is getting attracted with others' beauty, infatuation? Ok!! I ask it as - Is it always infatuation? No, its not. Wnw dictionary says this abt infatuate - "to inspire with foolish or shallow love or affection" .. Are those looks always deceiving? No they are not. If they really arent deceiving, its not infatuation.
"Love at first sight" may be defined something like - getting your exact taste in the other person. Taste - Ok!! it might be defined something like - preferences. Fine, fine.. enuff of definitions..
So, love at first sight does exist. Now, it may be found out as infatuation later. Or we might even get to understand the other person correctly at the very first moment itself. Afterall, actions depict our nature and we might be gud at judging actions. Now those actions (action of wearing some kind of clothers, physical actions) are what attract us in the very first moment. So, it all depends on the intelligence of the person. It might come out as infatuation later or you might just continue with the degree of love within.
Whatever may be the arguments.. Critics will never stop. All I want to say is that this - "love at first sight" is something really sweet. ppl who experience this are really lucky. infact, ppl who experience this from both the sides (or genders) are the luckiest. ok!! i rename myself as lucky :D Dont try to run away. Dont let yourself believe the fact that its infatuation. That way, you wont be able to call urself as lucky* (regular expressions :D) ...
